Okay so I will do my best to explain this as easily as I can, some people have gotten confused by this.
I am 19 years old and I am pregnant with twins. When I was 11 years old my mama died and my father remarried about four months after that. My relationship with him became very bad, his wife Judy became obsessed with me becoming her daughter. She had 3 sons who were younger than me and had always wanted a daughter. When I relented and said nobody could replace my mama she removed all her things from the house.
After about five months of that, I ended up moving in with my pops (mama’s dad). Because she ended up ruining my mama’s grave, trashing it and he did nothing. He gained custody of me and I severed ties with my fathers family. Never making contact even when they had their own sons. Then after I left home, I got a call from both of them saying I could always be their daughter again if I wanted. I politely refused and changed my phone number. (I am still not sure how they got it).
When my boyfriend and I were at the hospital to have a scan to make sure the babies were okay, we ran into my father and Judy. Now this really got on my nerves, Judy needs a kidney transplant and in front of Judy’s family and friends they asked me to get tested because none of them were a match. Once I have the babies they said, of course I said no no and we left. My father chased me out and said he wants them to be the grandparents and that Judy would be insulted if we mentioned my mama.
My boyfriend and I have moved since, and I am not sure how Judy is or my father. But her sister turned up at my pops house and started shouting at me (while I am 7 months pregnant). She said I could have had a great mom in her sister etc….. Then she insulted my mama’s memory and said that Judy had said my mama was an evil woman. A few of my friends said I should let my father and Judy be the grandparents because they want to be, my children deserve to know who really loved their mom. And that is my mama not those people. I have made no contact with any of them since.
Am I right in what I am doing?
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I Am Pregnant And Have No Contact With My Fathers Family (my Step-family)?
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